Dear Agathians:

I was ordained to the priesthood at St. James’ Cathedral in June 2007, together with seven of my classmates.  Before our ordination, Bishop DiMarzio met with each candidate individually.  When it was my turn, he asked what my biggest worry about being a priest was.  “Administration,” I said without missing a beat.

Now, thirteen years later, six of which as a pastor, I would still say the same.  In fact, in all the interviews and reports I have given, I have always said that.  I was and still am ready to serve wherever and however my service is needed.  But I worried then and now about how to lead such diverse and complex parishes in our diocese.

“What about the parishioners?” the bishop continued.  “They are wonderful,” I replied.  Indeed, everywhere I went, I have encountered wonderful parishioners who welcome, support, and pray for me.  If there is a problem in the parish, it’s usually not the parishioners’ fault.  Most likely, it’s an issue with leadership.

Every time I sound a little sad – or mad – in my perspective, some parishioners would inevitably come to ask me about it.  Most of the time, they just want to assure me that they are praying daily for me.  It’s such a wonderful feeling to know that!  Strengthened by such prayers, I could never stay sad – or mad – for long.

So, my dear Agathians, as I spend time with my family this Thanksgiving, I will be thinking of you and your family.  Yes, we have lost much this year, but we still have much more to be thankful for.  I’m thankful for your love, prayer, and support.  I appreciate your understanding and patience with whatever is still lacking in my administration of our parish.  Let us continue to pray and work together, so that we continue to lose less and gain more – all for the greater glory of God.

— Fr. Vincentius Do, Pastor